t’s kinda crazy how we think using shame is going to motivate us into “staying in line.”
When you want someone else to do something for you.. do you “shame” them?
I hope not. When I’m asking a favor of someone or I want to motivate someone to do something I generally find something to compliment about them (authentically of course) or assure them how powerful/strong/smart/resilient they are.
It works so much better to treat people with kindness.
So.. if we want ourselves to make a change, why don’t we “butter” ourselves up a bit?
Why don’t we assure ourselves how loved, loving and lovable we are?
Shame makes us shrink. It makes us scared, fearful, and downtrodden.
Love makes us blossom & expand.
When we speak #onlylove to ourselves we start to see the incredible amount of potential we have to create the changes we want to see in our lives and the world.
Shame is not a motivational speaker and you can never get more love through fear, threats, or misery.
Only Love creates more love.
So give up self-shaming right here and right now. I'm with you.
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